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This article about the "Etiquette of the Street" appeared
in a one volume encyclopedia in 1894. Explore yet another arena
in which Victorian etiquette could get extensively complex and demanding. —fadedpages.com
Etiquette of the Street
A lady will bow first if she meets a gentleman
acquaintance on the street.
A lady will not stop on the street to converse with
a gentleman. If he wishes to chat with her, he will
turn and walk by her side until he has finished his
conversation, then raise his hat and leave her.
It is not etiquette for a lady to take the arm of a
gentleman on the street in the day-time, unless he be
a lover or a husband, and even then it is seldom done
in America.
In England it is permissible for a lady to accept
the arm of even an ordinary acquaintance on the
street. In foreign cities it is not comme il faut for
ladies to appear on the street at all without a gentleman.
A gentleman escorting two ladies may offer each an
arm, but a lady should never under any circumstances
walk between two gentlemen, holding an arm of
each.
On meeting friends or acquaintances on the street
or in public places, you should be careful not to call
their names so loudly as to attract the attention of
those around.
Never call across the street, and never carry on a
conversation in a public vehicle unless you are seated
side by side.
Gentlemen should never stare at ladies on the
street.
In walking with a lady a gentleman should take
charge of any small parcel, book, etc., with which she
may be burdened.
Never recognize a gentleman unless you are
perfectly sure of his identity. Nothing is more
awkward than a mistake of this kind.
A well-bred man must entertain no respect for the
brim of his hat. True politeness demands that the hat
be removed entirely from the head. Merely to nod or to
touch the brim of your hat is a lack of courtesy. The
body should not be bent at all in bowing.
A gentleman will always give a lady the inside of
the walk on the street.
Ladies should avoid walking rapidly on the street,
as it is ungraceful.
A gentleman walking with a lady should accommodate
his step to hers. It looks exceedingly awkward to see
a gentleman two or three paces ahead of a lady with
whom he is supposed to be walking.
Staring at people, expectorating, looking back on
the street, calling in a loud voice, laughing, etc.,
are very bad manners on the street.
A gentleman attending a lady will hold the door
open for her to pass. He will also perform the same
service for any lady passing in or out unattended.
A gentleman may assist a lady from an omnibus, or
over a bad crossing, without the formality of an
introduction. Having performed the service, he will
bow and retire.
No gentleman will smoke when standing or walking
with a lady on the street.
A quiet and unobtrusive demeanor upon the street is
the sign of a true lady, who goes about her own
affairs in a business-like way, and has always a
pleasant nod and smile for friends and
acquaintances.
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